SELF DISCOVERY

DIFFERENCE...

I think differently,

I talk differently,

I understand differently,

I respond to things differently,

I communicate and relate differently,

I do every single thing in life differently...

And now the big question WHY AM I DIFFERENT? 

   And the answer i have for you is this:

You are different because you are UNIQUE 

You are different because you are SPECIAL

You are different because you are INDIVIDUALIZED

You are different because you are PECULIAR

  The fear of being different shakes the very foundations of our being and fundamental psychic as humans. We are constantly intimidated by the seeming wonderful and euphoric qualities we find in other people instead of being encouraged to live our own lives to it's fullest that could and should conversely endear others to us. That is simply why you find people becoming carbon-copy of other people(we don't need a dual copy of anybody... that will simply contribute to the quantum of nuisance in our domain). 

 Yes I know that there distinguishing attributes in individuals that actually needs them to give ardent thought to and consequently change. But the fact remains that we totally ignore our better sides and then look up to our so-called heroes (am not against role models or even mentors. In fact you ought have them but that should not be to the detriment of your BEING!!!). What you should do with such anti-attitude is to consciously and consistently do the opposite eg. If you are easily quick to anger, deliberately make yourself happy in situations that require a rise in temper. With that, you gradually rule over such habit (I have personally experienced this over and over again in my life

 Difference is the hidden part of you that needs expression and the very open part of you that must not know only be used, but disciplined. Your difference makes you worth the number amongst the approximately seven (7) billion people on the surface of he earth. Imagine everyone on the earth thinks, speaks, reacts or even do things the same way... what a boring and stereotyped life will it be ! 

 Therefore, don't lockup your difference in the box of fear and 'popularity flow', peradventure you are not accepted by the 'general' instead, groom your uniqueness to attract people around you. Make your difference the rarest commodity that others even if they wish to be like you, will require discipline to attain your level of uniqueness.

Know your difference !

Harness your difference !!

Project your difference !!!

You are quite needful because you are different.