Why not me, why don't they understand me too?
Last week we looked at understanding your temperaments and that of your parents to help you better understand and relate to your parents.
Well I know we too want to be understood ...
because we are human beings, we have emotions too. This might be a little hard to believe but you just got to talk to them... That's the key! In fact the number one key to getting people to understand you is communication.
Not every body has the patience and ability to look at your temperaments, your past life and how you were brought up to understand you. Especially when you don't communicate; you can break the jinx and just communicate, tell your parents what the issue is, how you feel when they do certain things, what you want from them—just communicate.
While communicating, bring into perspective the kind of person they are so you can fully understand what kind of communicating skills you would employ. Let your discretion lead you in that aspect.
Don't expect them to automatically change after you talk with them, no, give them some time and be consistent at communicating.
Up next: the next step.
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